I felt/feel the same way. It took me a few days to FINALLY get my Starlink up and running.
The trick is that you have to do EVERYTHING on your cell phone. Make sure you install the app and then go from there. Your phone app is going to do everything for you - login, alignment, upgrades, etc...
The most difficult part of the set-up for me was finding the loooong ID number. There wasn't anything on or in the box and you have to have a microscope to see the stamped ID's on the router.
Good luck because once you do get it running Starlink is amazing! I made it through Hurricane Milton (right through it!) and NEVER lost signal!!!